When I grow up, I will be the kind of mom who has everything you never even thought you needed in her bag. I will have Kleenex, wipes, alcohol, bandages. I will walk through my office with poise and elegance, carrying an It bag and wearing shoes with red soles. When I grow up, I […]
Is your career taking over your life?
Your work email is the last thing you check at night and the first thing you look at in the morning. You can’t sleep. The only thing that makes you happy are weekends. When asked how you are, your default answer is “busy.” You wish you could get sick so you could take a break. […]
Authentic advice from mamas just like you
This week, we celebrated a milestone. My daughter, B, turned seven. It’s seven years since I became a mama. The early days were surprisingly difficult. I didn’t have enough milk. It seemed like I was absent when the instinct for motherhood was being handed out. Her threenager year was a challenge and I wondered where my affectionate baby went. Now […]
How I quit my day job to draw things
Name: Ella Lama My job today: I used to refer to myself as a letterer but now I feel like that’s too limiting. Basically I draw and run my own stationery business for a living. My last corporate job: Online shop, customer service, finance and administration manager (yes, I was all of those things, all at […]
The life-changing magic of gratitude
My husband’s family celebrates Thanksgiving here in the Philippines (as they lived for a long time in the United States). It has become my favorite holiday because it includes all the things that make life worth living—a buffet table groaning with turkey, stuffing, cranberry sauce, sweet potato casserole, the gathering of family, a blessing before the meal […]
10 things I’m loving now: October 2016
This post is heavy on Japanese love because of my trip to Tokyo at the start of the month. 1. Taking a road trip this long weekend? Listen to this courageous episode from the Modern Love podcast 2. New obsession: Midori Traveler’s notebooks 3. I can spend hours here and here 4. The tang of good […]