My wish for you in 2023

My wish for you in 2023

I wish for you a year when you throw open the doors to your heart. When you loudly proclaim, “I’m here.” When you softly whisper, “I’m ready.” When you no longer settle for less—from yourself or others. When you take courageous steps—whether they are baby ones or giant leaps. When you no longer shrink yourself to fit in. When you savor life’s gifts—the promise in a sunrise, the joys of a curated playlist […]

The gifts of 2022

The gifts of 2022

Boosters. Face-to-face school. Meals out with friends. Parties to celebrate milestone birthdays. Travel. The Tiny Gratitude Journaling Kit. The Sunday Night Journal Volume 5. Collaborating with @mummywanderoo. Finishing my 50,000-word novel which I completed right on time for its November 30 deadline. This is my short list of 2022’s gifts. How about you? What were the gifts […]

The gifts of radical gratitude

The gifts of radical gratitude

I started practicing gratitude daily during one of the darkest moments in my life—when everything in my life felt like it was falling apart, when the things I thought I could count on (my marriage, my mom, my identity) had shattered like a mirror. The shards I had to pick up reflected back to me […]

The gift of seasons

The gift of seasons

It’s weird to talk about seasons in a country which only has two: hot and hotter. (Maybe there should be a third one: hottest!) But something in my spirit connects to the idea of the four seasons. It’s wonderful to witness beautiful evidence of change, of evolution, happening year after year, without human effort or our […]

The gifts of fear

The gifts of fear

How do you see fear? For most of us, we look at fear as an enemy, as something to banish from our lives, as a trait that limits us from our potential. She’s so fearless, we say, with hushed, admiring voices. Fear, like stress, is unwanted and therefore something to negate and be replaced by self-belief and […]

The gifts of failure

The gifts of failure

Are there even any gifts to failure? When no one signs up for your offering, when your boss berates you for not achieving your targets in front of your fellow managers, when you don’t pass a professional exam, when the pregnancy test comes out negative yet again, when your proposal is rejected, when you don’t […]