Habit #1: Have a healthy relationship with your feelings.

Habit #1: Have a healthy relationship with your feelings.

Women who aspire to emotional wellness have a healthy relationship with their feelings—with fear, anger, grief or joy. What’s your usual reaction when you feel something aside from joy?  Say, for example, when you’re feeling scared or bored on envious or anxious? If you’re anything like me, you run away!  It’s not comfortable to feel all […]

Dear future client

Dear future client

Dear future client, Do you know that feeling where you know you SHOULD be feeling happy but you’re feeling guilty because you’re not? From the outside your life looks amazing. You’re busy with a job you’re excellent at. You have a beautiful home. You’re always sharing photos of your travels with your family on Instagram. […]

On anxiety

On anxiety

I have to give a speech in two days. And I can feel my stomach clenching in anxiety. I want to do well. I hope the things I say are relevant, helpful and not stupid. I don’t want them to get bored. When uncomfortable feelings come up, I’ve learned not to push them away but […]

Seven ways to beat the Sunday night blues

Seven ways to beat the Sunday night blues

Oh, Sunday sunsets—which means Monday is just around the corner. Here are some ideas to keep the blues at bay: 1. Make a Sunday night cocktail hour ritual. It doesn’t have to be complicated. A daiquiri and a bowl of cornicks will give you the buzz you need to forget the weekend’s end. 2. Answer […]

On being kind to you

On being kind to you

This month, I shared this poem with subscribers to my Joyful Little Note, my monthly newsletter. If you’re having trouble being kind to yourself, here are some words of wisdom who make a case for why only kindness matters: “Instead, ask yourself what you love. Without fear of consequences, without force or shame or guilt. […]